GRAND RE-OPENING  – (Note: The new Hope Marketplace blog is now at hopemarketplace.org.  Come join the conversation!)

When a store sets up shop, they do some advertising, hire a celebrity to cut the ribbon in front of the media and say in big letters “NOW OPEN.” For a Re-Opening it’s pretty much the same deal following a period where they were temporarily closed for remodeling or because there was a change in management. They want to publicize what is new and improved.

Following that idea we would like to introduce Hope Marketplace, formerly known as Hope Jewelry. We weren’t closed, our online doors were still open, but we did do quite a bit of remodeling. We took time to re-evaluate our purpose and how best to accomplish it. And as a result we have a new name, a new look, and a new mission statement…

A marketplace of goods and ideas supporting freedom from human trafficking and sexual exploitation.

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Have you ever wondered who that teenage girl is you saw leaning through the passenger car window obviously negotiating with a potential “john”?  What’s her story? How did she end up doing this instead of going to school and the mall and worrying about what to wear to the school dance?

Obviously everybody’s story is unique but there is a lot of commonality among prostituted girls.  It’s that story which is told in Renting Lacy.  The story of a few different girls trafficked in different ways but with common factors putting them at risk, pulling them in and holding them in a life of prostitution.51m6qxc4k8l_sl500_aa300_

There is a warning on the book’s cover that the content is adult in nature.  I never thought I’d read a book with that disclaimer.  And I never thought I’d read a book with the word “ho” used so frequently. (in quoting the characters in the book)  I never thought I’d read a book that showed the underworld of prostitution in all it’s ugliness. But I did.  Renting Lacy is offensive but that is it’s intent.  Sex for profit, the victimization of women, children, and men too, should offend us because it is an offense to the dignity of individuals.

The book was written by Linda Smith, founder of Shared Hope International.  For years her work was focused overseas, but then her eyes opened to the domestic problem. She wrote this book to help the rest of us grasp the ugly reality of sex trafficking in our neighborhoods.  The title of the book refers to Lacy.  Lacy is the name Linda Smith gives to a prostituted girl.  And “renting” is quite appropriate for paying a human being for some time of doing whatever you want to her or him.

The story is a combination of real stories woven into narratives.  Interspersed are some general statistics and explanations.  As someone very familiar with the subject I can’t say that any of the “facts” were new to me.  For example, I know that girls are often lured by men who befriend them and psychologically manipulate them.  I know that there is a book on how to get a girl to become your “ho” (girl who prostitutes herself under authority of a pimp who oftentimes keeps all of the money).

Of course it’s one thing to have a piece of data in your head and another thing to become acquainted with a girl who is living that reality.  To see her ensnared and still feeling love for the pimp who now owns her; still believing his lies that doing this for him is temporary and someday they’ll have the American dream- be married and financially set.  To see her reject her own family for a life of alcohol, drugs, and being rented out to do the unthinkable with men who see her as merely an object to use however they want.

The book uses ugly language and paints ugly pictures to more accurately describe what is uncomfortable to think about.  (The foul, crude language is not used gratuitously and  the author said it was greatly toned down.)  Is it worth reading? I say “yes”.  We all cringe to read about atrocities like the Holocaust but I think most of us would agree it is important we know about it.  And that is a part of history.  How much more should we know about something currently happening in our world, undoubtedly closer to us than we might think.

I hope you will read it and share your reaction to Renting Lacy here and with your friends and family.  I challenge you to be willing to know what is going on even though it’s hard to stomach.  Who knows where this knowledge will lead?

Renting Lacy can be purchased from the Shared Hope International website.

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This past Mother’s Day was a great day for me- cards from my husband and kids, meals with our moms.  Basically what I consider a standard celebration.  At church one of the pastors talked about the value of women in God’s eyes.  He affirmed us in our roles as mothers and commended us for doing a good job.

So there I sat at my church in downtown Phoenix.  I found my mind drifting as I thought about what was undoubtedly happening at that moment just blocks away. Sex being sold for cash.  Women and girls being abused.  The contrast was glaring.  Here I was being built up and loved by men.  There they were being torn down and despised by men.

So, who are these men buying sex?  They have moms.  Many have wives and daughters.  They wouldn’t think of hurting them.  In fact the thought of his wife selling her body or his daughter being raped is utterly disturbing to him.  And yet, somehow he justifies defiling a prostituted woman or girl.  Why?  Are they less valuable human beings?  Is the fact that most of them were sexually abused as children make it okay to continue the victimization? Does the exchange of money make it acceptable, as if the man is actually doing her a favor?

God created all people in his image and all people deserve to be valued.  Whether they are engaged in prostitution, strip clubs or pornography our society continues to view them as “those girls.”  We choose not to view them as real people who would rather have a different vocation.  (That’s right, 90% of those in the sex industry said they’d like to get out.)  Society may say it’s acceptable and doesn’t hurt the girls working there but nobody told them that.

How would you answer this question?  Perhaps with a more fundamental question- “Are there even slaves in my neighborhood?” (Almost certainly there are.)  Or perhaps an honest, “I might, if I were willing to look at those around me.”  Or perhaps you are willing to get involved but need more information, some common indicators to look for.

The Polaris Project has put together a detailed list called “Recognizing the Signs” that helps us answer the question I’ve posed and hopefully will help all of us feel more confident that, yes, we would notice a person being victimized in our own neighborhood.  If more and more of us know what to look for it seems clear that more people will be identified and can be freed from their captors.

Polaris Project is a key organization in the fight against slavery in the United States.  They have done great work through legislative means and raising awareness.  And especially important is their creation and operation of the National Human Trafficking Resource Center hotline: 1-888-3737-888.  The Polaris Project website has a wealth of information, including state-specific resources.  And the “Recognizing the Signs” article I’m referencing is really helpful.

The list is extensive and worth the time to read.  Here is just a small excerpt giving key points to consider when assessing whether or not an individual has been trafficked:  (for the complete story click here and go to “Recognizing the signs”)

He/she

  • is not free to leave or come and go as he/she wishes
  • Is under 18 and is providing commercial sex acts
  • Is in the commercial sex industry and has a pimp / manager
  • Is unpaid, paid very little, or paid only through tips
  • Works excessively long and/or unusual hours
  • Is not allowed breaks or suffers under unusual restrictions at work
  • Owes a large debt and is unable to pay it off
  • Was recruited through false promises concerning the nature and conditions of his/her work
  • High security measures exist in the work and/or living locations (e.g. opaque windows, boarded up windows, bars on windows, barbed wire, security cameras, etc.)

Jot down the number now- You never know, you might be the one person who can help save a victim.

National Human Trafficking Resource Center hotline at 1-888-3737-888

“This year, CNN joins the fight to end modern-day slavery with CNN Freedom Project. With its unmatched global reach and resources, CNN will shine a spotlight on the horrors of modern-day slavery and amplify the voices of the victims. Through passionate storytelling, celebrity and charity partnerships, provocative documentaries, live events, content strands across destination shows, distinct online platforms and viewer involvement, the CNN Freedom Project will help educate, motivate and unravel the complicated tangle of criminal enterprises trading in human lives.”

Shared Hope International has been working internationally for a decade to combat trafficking.  The non-profit’s mission statement:  “Shared Hope International exists to rescue and restore women and children in crisis. We are leaders in a worldwide effort to prevent and eradicate sex trafficking and slavery through education and public awareness.”

Recently they have brought special attention to the issue here in the United States with a focus on Domestic Minor Sex Trafficking.  Simply put, American girls under age 18 sold for sex in America. There are at least 100,000 children prostituted in America every year.

Shared Hope International researched Domestic Minor Sex Trafficking (DMST) with a grant from the U.S. Dept. of Justice.  The main way they did this was by conducting more than a dozen field assessments in cities spread across America, including Phoenix.  (Click here to read the report on Phoenix in particular.)  They put together a concise Fact Sheet which gives a good overview of the issue.  Here are some excerpts:

Scope of the problem

• At least 100,000 children are used in prostitution every year in the United States.

• The average age of entry into prostitution is 13 years old.

• Prostituted girls are often controlled by a pimp who recruits them into sex trafficking  by posing as a boyfriend, caretaker, and protector.

• The three primary manifestations of child sex trafficking in America are: pimp-controlled prostitution, familial prostitution, and/or survival sex.

The Business of Domestic Minor Sex Trafficking

Sex trafficking of America’s children is driven by demand for the commercial sex acts they perform.  Demand of buyers – people who rent the body of a child for sexual purposes or entertainment – allows the business of child sex trafficking to continue. The industry grows as traffickers seek to fulfill the demand by targeting and recruiting more of America’s youth for sexual exploitation.

AMERICAN CHILDREN ARE THE VICTIMS.  American children are easy targets for sex traffickers.  The vulnerability is the child’s age.  Pre-teen and adolescent girls are especially susceptible to the deception and manipulation of traffickers.  Traffickers target locations that commonly attract youth like schools, malls, parks, even shelters and group homes.

WHO ARE THE TRAFFICKERS?  A trafficker is anyone who profits by receiving cash or other benefits in exchange for sex with a minor.  These criminals are often called pimps. Across the United States, family members, friends, and “boyfriends” were identified as pimps.

WHO ARE THE BUYERS?  Many buyers are men; however, the buyers can be anyone - young and old, locals and tourists, military and civilian, students and professionals, family and strangers.

VICTIMS, NOT CRIMINALS
Exploited children are often labeled “child prostitutes” or juvenile delinquents and punished for the crime that is committed against them.  Victims of domestic minor sex trafficking are in detention facilities across the country for charges of prostitution while those who buy sex from them are free and their traffickers frequently escape detection.

Deterring Demand

Buyers receive little or no penalty for purchasing commercial sex from a minor though laws are in place to prosecute them.  Despite their integral role in fueling the commercial sex industry, little priority is placed on arresting and prosecuting the “johns.”  As long as there is a buyer of commercial sex, there will be child victims of commercial sexual exploitation.

Recruitment and Pimp Control

Traffickers learn the psychology of their young victims and master the manipulation methods necessary to deceptively lure children into sexual exploitation. The trafficker’s goal is to create and exploit vulnerabilities which will make a child completely dependent and bonded to their exploiter. The trafficker’s ultimate goal is profit.

Next steps

•     Child victims of sex trafficking must be identified and treated as victims.

•     The arrest and prosecution of buyers must be made a priority.

•     Appropriate protective shelter and services are needed for the protection and restoration of child sex trafficking victims.

“This victim’s story illustrates a common ploy in the world of human trafficking in which young women are enticed to leave home with the promise of a job in modeling or some other profession. Once they arrive at their destinations, isolated and broke, they are forced into prostitution.”

This from an article in the March 4th edition of the Arizona Republic.  A 20-year-old trafficking victim from Mexico thought she was going to be working as a nanny in South Carolina but ended up being forced into prostitution.

She managed to escape from the well-kept home where she was being held against her will and was waiting to testify against those involved in the trafficking ring but longed to return to Mexico to be reunited with her young son and family.  She then fled the shelter she was staying at and took an airplane destined for Mexico.  Her flight had a stop in Phoenix and she was arrested and is now in the federal prison in Florence….

Click here to read the whole story.

Ring, ring, ring….”Hello?” Hi Honey, it’s Mom. What do you all want for Christmas?”

If you’re anything like me, you’ve both answered and asked this question quite a bit already as we fast-approach Christmas day. We give gifts to remember (in a tangible way) the ultimate gift given to mankind over 2,000 years ago by God in the form of His Son Jesus Christ. But let’s be honest for a moment, sometimes it’s hard to keep that in mind while you stress about what to get Aunt Marge or buying the perfect something for your mate. And then you read my blog title and suddenly you have another thing to stress about, right? Well, maybe, but sometimes a little anxiety can produce something amazing if channeled correctly. Before you start too far down the road of purchasing for your friends, family, neighbors and co-workers consider the source before moving forward with purchasing the product.

The Department of Labor released a report in September of 2009 highlighting several countries and a list of goods having strong ties to being produced by slave labor. In China, some of the top products were Christmas decorations, garments and footwear.

It’s almost impossible to be sure that everything you buy comes from a reputable source but there are definitely ways to support and reward the businesses that have chosen the higher road of ethical production and purchasing. I’d like to give you some suggestions:

Fair Trade: Buying fair trade is a powerful way to support producers in the U.S. and overseas in their effort to guarantee that their products are not only made without the use of slave labor but also that a fair wage is paid to their workers. You will also find a product search option so you can find what brand names at a particular store are fair trade. For the U.S. www.transfairusa.org and international www.fairtrade.net

Shop to Stop Slavery is a nonprofit organization that has produced a Gift Guide for this season. You’ll find 50 pages worth of businesses and ministries that sell great gift items, oftentimes produced by the survivors themselves. www.shoptostopslavery.com/gift-guide

Delicate Fortress is another organization committed to selling products created by survivors of trafficking as well as other forms of injustice. Before buying for the women and girls in your life take a look here. www.delicatefortress.com

For those of you in Phoenix, check out Gifts With A Conscience located at 3301 East Indian School Road www.giftswc.com. Note: they only have store hours on Thurs. Friday and Saturday. However, you can see their merchandise online ahead of time.

Purchase locally from small businesses as much as possible. While there’s no guarantee, the chances are greater that you’re buying a good product from a reputable supplier.

Encourage the businesses you purchase from to buy fair trade products whenever possible. Businesses want to supply what their customers will purchase. If enough people request it, then they’re sure to bring it in.

I know from personal experience that the pursuit of informed purchasing is not easy. Last year I wanted to send someone a fruit and chocolate basket and it took quite awhile to find a Fair Trade version, but with some perseverance and a willingness to spend a bit more, I tracked one down.

As the saying goes, it is far better to give than to receive. The feeling of satisfaction you experience when you find the perfect gift for someone you care about will increase all the more when you also care about the one making it.

(The list provided here is not exhaustive. We would like our readers to comment with their own findings for ethical gift purchasing, so please share the wealth!)

If you’re like me you’ve used Craigslist at one time or another.  We’ve sold a bed and a TV, purchased a bulletin board, and looked for furniture on Craigslist.  It is great on a lot of levels and for the things the majority of people who use it, it functions well.

BUT, my endorsement of that site has officially ended.  I recently learned that Craigslist is a major means by which girls are trafficked into the sex industry.  And because Craig’s list charges for pimps to advertise they make an estimated $36 million a year.  What are these advertisements?  Simply put, women and children for sale.  This means of advertising makes it difficult to trace these evil people making the risk less than selling drugs. And, unlike drugs, a girl’s body can be sold over and over and is way more lucrative.  In one typical case a girl was raped at truck stops 10 times per night, 7 days per week netting $30,000 per month for the pimp.  All of which was arranged via Craigslist.

A recent letter was published in the San Fransisco Chronicle.  It is a letter from two girls who are Craigslist trafficking survivors asking, no pleading, for Craig’s list to stop being a means of rape for profit.  You can read what was published on Huffington post:  Dear Craig…

I’m still on the lookout for a good alternative to Craigslist.  If you know of one please respond to this post.  In the meantime, I might have to buy and sell via Ebay, or better yet, donate my used stuff to a good charity.

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In the movie “Taken”, Liam Neeson’s character is an ex-CIA agent who finds
out that his daughter is kidnapped into the dark underworld of human
trafficking.  He does what most men want to do, myself included, kick some
serious butt to rescue the girl.  Sadly, my use of sniper rifles, timed
explosives and lethal finishing moves is limited to my ability to press “W”,
“A”, “S”, and “D”  on a keyboard and aim my mouse.  But that male urge to
have “a beauty to rescue” is still there.  And I think that God-given urge
is not just meant for virtual worlds but for accomplishing real change in a
world that needs men to kick some butt and rescue those who need rescuing.

I know almost nothing about jewelry.  I do know the only thing a husband
needs to know about jewelry, the phrase “that looks good on you honey.”  But
what could I do to help in the rescue of these women?  I remember a couple
years back visiting a ministry that provided a shelter for men coming out of
prison.  The ugly truth of prison is that almost 90 percent of prisoners go
back to prison.  But because of this center, the number is closer to 10
percent.  So a non-glamorous center is actually stopping crime and turning
these men into good citizens, many of whom give their lives to serving God.

The ministries we support through Hope Jewelry are doing a very similar
work.  They provide all means of support to these women being  freed from
sexual slavery.  Kicking down the door of the bad guys can be accomplished
by giving these women a hope for a new life, free to be all the God wants
them to be.  That is a beauty to rescue.  Bring it on!

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